So basically after we have sex she wants me to stay inside her while we have a conversation about pretty much anythingm. It feels very intimate because with previous partners I would just turn over and lay beside them or go to the bathroom or something. She has asked me to do this a few times and lately it has become the norm.
Is this normal or?
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Couldn’t be more normal
My wife and I do this every time we have sex. Eventually when we are done and ready to get up I use my vagina muscles to squeeze him out.
(51F) Everyone is different about their level of intimacy with their playmate. But as long as you’re BOTH enjoying yourselves, THAT’s what’s important⛓
Have a great day Hun❣️
I love this, I always feel so close to my person when this happens & it can be really fun!!
I love this too!
Normal? Sad that it’s not normal.
Love feeling him go soft inside me after we are done and have him slowly slip out
Totally normal just make sure you’re using some sort of protection or contraception if you’re trying to prevent pregnancy.
There is no normal so do whatever you two enjoy
It is a way to make the intimacy last longer. Also is is a method for increasing the chances of pregnancy so make sure you’re using protection.
It’s not for everyone but it is a favorite of mine. I feel very vulnerable.
Try and see what happens
This is sweet and I’ve always enjoyed doing it.
Something important to note though: if you’re using condoms, you will probably gradually go soft after orgasming, and there’s a good chance that the condom will fall off. May seem like not a big deal, but there is actually an increased risk of STIs and pregnancy because of this. (I know this because I accidentally got my ex pregnant this way 🙃) I wouldn’t really recommend it unless your gf is on birth control and you’re already not using condoms; or if you do it, just be mindful that the base of the condom isn’t inside her after you finish and that you hold onto it and pull it out when you pull out.
My husband does this. I thought it was weird at first, he would finish inside me in the prone bone (his favorite position) and we would just spoon with him inside me and would caress/cuddle me while we fell asleep. We’ve been together 5 years and this is just routine.
I got so used to how intimate and close to him that feels that when we have quickies I feel like something is “missing.”
Intimacy slut, the best kind
I love the feeling of a guy inside me after we’re done. I’ve even fallen asleep with him inside me after (spooning) sometimes it provides an extra bit of pleasure too.
She might be just exploring? For most people it says “What we have is sex plus intimacy in one package.” Some want that, some don’t. It’s one way. If it doesn’t work for you, the two if you need to figure out what can get both of you what you want/need/deserve.
Damn, goals. I really love talking, and listening to people talk. Probably more than sex honestly, and I like sex a lot. I would be so psyched if my partner wanted me to just talk to them.
As a male I dig it. I’m all for weird intimacy stuff like that. I was with a girl once who would hold my penis while we watched movies.. nothing sexual, just a comfort thing. Fucking awesome. Felt super close because of how casual something so sexual was
Stay inside her. It is the best feeling ever.
I’ve experienced this a long, long, long time ago. Here’s the kicker: If you can manage to stay inside, you may eventually get hard again. Then, you’ll be able to do the ol’ in-out, in-out. You may not actually ejaculate, but it’s highly possible you’ll orgasm.
Highly enjoyable. Highly recommend.
It was normal for my ex-husband of 33 years to stay inside me while our heart rates and breathing came back to normal and we would often just lay there for a few minutes. I don’t think we had “normal conversation”. If we talked it was either referring to how great the sex was or how we felt about each other. But it was definitely very intimate moments, probably the most intimate, even more so than the actual sex.
The guy I’m with now doesn’t do that and I feel a bit lost and empty when he gets up. I should probably talk to him about that and ask him to linger a bit.
My 29f girlfriend loves it when after I finish inside her I just lay there with her. We use an IUD though, otherwise I wouldn’t consider it. After I’ve gone soft, she pushes me out with her vaginal muscles and I tell ya, I’ve had a lot of physical sensations, but it feels so nice.
We feel so close emotionally in those few minutes. The “I love yous” hit so much harder when I’m still inside her. Plus, I’m still hard for a few minutes after, and every thrust and twitch with my semen still in her makes her shudder, aftershocks she calls them.
This is normal and it brings a whole new level of intimacy and trust.
Or just laying down naked talking about life and laughing together.
I miss my ex now 🤦♂️🤣
My wife finds something similar very comforting. After oral (or even other activities) she’d want me to stay in her mouth. We’d just lie there, me in her mouth, and I’d gently stroke her hair. I found it odd at first but later very comforting. Sometimes she would want to do this in a situation without sex. It makes me feel very vulnerable, but it became a wonderful trusting experience. Very intimate. And she found it greatly comforting, her safe place.