context: my bf (21) and myself (20) are going to have a sleepover for the first time next week since last year, we haven’t been able to have sex this year.
for the females:
– head techniques? for some fire head
– how do y’all take the whole dick😫
– positions that we as girls are able to keep up for longer
for the males:
– positions that drive y’all crazy
– what do you like most about getting head
any other general tips for a couple getting back to having sex
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1. Prone bone with a small pillow under the girl’s hip.
2. Lots of saliva, no teeth. Then, swallow.
as a guy
1) reverse cowgirl with squats is amazing. But I also love to be on top and fold a partner in half till her feet are behind her ears and pound her. Also a good carryfuck is nice if your guy’s got the physique for it
2) hmmm I rarelly cum from head so hard to say…. the naughtier the girl acts as she gives it, the bigger the turn on. A lot of saliva, eye contact and the girl loving it and sucking me like it’s the best treat in the world is a HUGE turn on
Fav position; cowgirl or her sitting in my lap facing me.
Head: for me is 50% enthusiasm/attitude and 50 technique. I personally like plenty of saliva and combinatio of hand and mouth.
Hi babe.
25 F here.
1. When I give head to a boy, most of the time I use my hand(s) and mouth at the same time.
2. Once in a while look him straight in the eyes and laugh a bit cheeky/naughty.
3. Change up the speed.
4. Play softly with his balls if he’s into that.
5. Most important: ask what he prefers! Every boy is different and it is fun to play around.
I wish you all the best! Remember communicating is key <3
You don’t have to take the whole dick if it’s uncomfortable! Use your hand with your mouth: keep your mouth on the head and move your hand up and down the shaft, move your hand up and down in time with your mouth so it’s like an extension of your mouth, or even use two hands with your mouth if you’ve got the balance skills for it lol. The key is to use a lot of spit as lube, so he’s gotta be cool with you basically drooling on his dick lol. I’ve gotten lots of awesome feedback with the hand/mouth combo and my current partner even prefers it to deep throating. And if you’ve got jaw issues like me and keeping your mouth open for long periods of time hurts, you can take a break without losing rhythm by continuing with your hand and then kiss his thighs or use your mouth on his balls. Lots of options!
I think positions that are able to last are more individual. Like, I used to be terrible at lasting for long on top until I figured out ways to position my legs so my feet didn’t fall asleep. Having a pillow or two under your butt/lower back makes missionary easier, and having a pillow under your chest/stomach helps a bunch with the facedown doggy position.
It’s also fun to switch up positions! So don’t feel like you’ve gotta be locked into one.
For the future, apparently sex swings help a lot with positions and rhythm and you can go for a long time without needing to adjust. I haven’t tried one, but wanna get one! They make ones that can be put up over the door (though they make a good amount of noise), you can attach one to those chair swing stands, and you could also use an aerial silk set up as a sex swing and just tell people you’re into aerial silks if they ask about it 😅
Enthusiasm is key. Let him be able to tell that you’re passionate about what you’re doing to him. Don’t halfass it. Use your hand and mouth in tandem.
Guys don’t always like ‘taking the whole dick’ ask first.
Position: Prone, but put a pillow under your hips.
Head: Guys like a steady tempo just like you probably do, using your hand is ok but be gentle on the tip, think of the tip, especially the frenulum, like your clit. No teeth, but your lips over your teeth. Either swallow, or if you’re on BC, jump on him to finish, RIGHT when he’s about to.