On my last hookup I [M] didn’t dare to do oral because basically I don’t really know that person and I was afraid of getting any STI. She didn’t do any oral also (but we had a great time anyway).
So, PIV and touching was ok for me but I draw a line at oral.
Is it wrong to think this way? Am I worrying about it too much?
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Not for a 1 night stand or very beginning of a relationship
Transmission rates for oral are super low, just saying.
you’re more likely to catch something from unprotected PIV than unprotected oral! but that’s totally fine. I’m in a long-term relationship where I’ve never gone down on my partner *because* they have an STD. so it’s understandable. the fact that you don’t expect it back makes it seem damn fair to me 🤷🏼♀️
Did you use a condom?
Did you know that dental dams are a thing?
Did you know that as embarrassing as oral herpes might be, genital infections are usually worse?