Like I’ve seen posts about women that love to get fucked hard by a guy. They want a guy to be on top and fuck them hard. I’ve also seen women even in home made porn video that are loving it and begging for him to keep going.
But my wife is nothing like that. In fact that she doesn’t really care that much for penetration. I’ve traded to put her leg back so I can go deeper but she said it actually often times hurts her cuz I go too deep and she likes it slow in and out rather than hard and fast.
Her reasoning is that most women don’t orgasm from penetration and she said it feels good but it’s nothing spectacular and she barely even moans when we fuck.
Like during sex, it usually revolves around me getting her off through fingering and rubbing her clit before I go on top and do penetration. She does like being on top a lot more but she often times go up too far when she’s riding and my dick slips out or I’m afraid she’s gonna break it by accidentally going off angle.
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Some do, some do not. As always
Anything that starts with “women love” is inaccurate from the start. We don’t all enjoy the same thing. What’s more important is what this specific woman loves.
Also, people sometimes do what they think looks good for the camera, rather than what they personally like, even in amateur porn.
You may not believe it, but women have preferences on what feels good/bad/better during sex in the same way men do.
Porn ISN’T REAL. EVEN HOMEMADE PORN. It’s a fantastic depiction of sex. Always. The very fact that there is a camera present means it’s acting. Period. (This goes for all media…not simply sex!)
Around half of all women do not orgasm from penis-in-vagina sex alone. Many don’t enjoy penetration.
Talk to your partner. Trust what they say. Why would they lie?
You aren’t a better fucker because you pound hard and fast. Making certain your partner has a satisfying experience makes you good at sex.
First thing to get off the chopping block, there are no universal constants when it comes to demographics of people. Even to say all men have a penis is inaccurate (even if you don’t subscribe to the new age sociological ideas of sex. Some men have lost their penises or were born without them at all.) Or to say all black people have abundant melanin in their skin. So not all women love something, as with all demographics.
Sounds like your wife knows what she likes. She likes it slow and passionate, she likes it when the head of your cock rubs her gspot (thats why when she’s in control, on top, she goes up “too far” (just a guess given your description though)).
You may be able to get her off through sex if you use those to your advantage.
Women are almost like real people – they have huge ranges of desires, opinions, etc on almost any subject.
Some love to be fucked hard. Some despise that. Some can take it or leave it.
The better question is why the FUCK you don’t just believe your partner when she tells you what she does and doesn’t like? Are you SERIOUSLY thinking that because some porn chicks beg for harder fucking, she’s lying to you when she says its not good for her?
Seriously. What the fuck, man?
I don’t.
Try a vibrating cock ring or try to stimulate her clit while penetrating. Her g spot may be too far up so she isn’t getting much. It’s just how your wife is down there so work with it and love it.
All women are different. The sooner you accept that, the sooner you will be well on your way to a good sex life with your wife. Forget everything you have seen on porn, anything you learned by having sex with other women, and anything you have ever heard about what women like. Figure out what your wife likes and what really turns her own, and go from there.
Some like it, some don’t. Some like it sometimes, some never, some often. There’s no right or wrong.
It seems like you’re just not going to have the kind of sex you want to have with your wife.
First of all porn isn’t real!! Not all women like the same things.. every women is completely different just like every man