Hello! Me and my partner have a very active sex life, both of us are newly 18. I’m a penis haver and she’s a vagina haver. Due to her being a dancer she has a very worked pelvic floor and as a result lubricant is a must, or else one or us gets super sore due to her…torque?
I decided to buy the 2 in 1 durex lubricant and massage aloe vera sauce and its been great for her! The issue is with me. I’ve found that I can’t feel anything at all using this lubricant. She usually starts off fairly wet, and then as we go for a bit I naturally begin to get more sore, either from stubble or just the strain of the act, so I ask her to apply lube. From that point on we’re at it for, like, 1-2 hours. Im cool with it, but she says she’d like it to be more mutual for me and as a result I’ve come to ask for guidance.
Tl;dr: I think 2 in 1 durex lube causes numbing and I’m looking for a replacement without it. Something that contains NOTHING other than the agent responsible for reducing friction. It needs to be something easily accessible too, as I hate the hassle that comes with ordering off of random websites specifically marketing their superior lube or whatever.
Thanks!