My (28m) wife (28f) and I after having three kids have found ourselves in somewhat of a routine. We don’t get much private time from the kids and she is usually very tired and not in the mood for anything other than the standard missionary position. This is the only way she has been able to orgasm, but she does get it fairly consistently and often multiple times. I am really wanting to try and add new things for both of our sakes. We have experimented with a lot of things over the years, but we are getting gradually less diverse. I offer to try a variety of things for her, but she generally refuses or stops after a minute or two. I have tried to express that I may not be good at the different things, but I am willing to practice if she will let me. She usually just says “I’ll just get you” or “I just want it the regular way”. Then I feel guilty for wanting to do more adventurous things. Does anyone have resources or advice on how we can broaden our horizons? How to talk about it? Things to try?
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Probably get her in a good/relaxed mood first. Help with all the things that get her tired or better yet find a way to take a full day off with just her(im sure its hard with the kids and all but i would consider it a must every once in a while).i think that would put her in a much better/ more inclined to do different things kind of mood. Jmho.
Don’t start going down hill now! Shower her with compliments so it’s In her head that she’s sexy and you want her. I know it drives me wild when I’m having sex and my husband is telling me how hot I am… he could do whatever he wants with me! Just make sure she feels comfortable and slowly work your way up into more freaky stuff. For example.. if you get her in doggy.. tell her how amazing her ass look, touch her butt touch her back, tell her how you can’t get enough of her pussy. It’ll drive her crazy
Take your wife somewhere different. Sometimes a new location can help spice things up. Rent an AIRBNB up in the mountains or by a beach. Get one with a big tub. Light some candles. Both of you get in and just go to town.