Im 23 M and she is 22 F. We both studied in the same high school. And I really liked her very much. Then she left the school. But I had hope that one day I’ll meet her. But 7 years went by and I had given up hope of ever contacting her as she did not have any SM. Until this year I finally found her Instagram account. So i texted her and confessed my feelings to her but she did not reply, so i texted again on her birthday wishing her. But then I got to know that her exams were going on. So I thought due to that she wasn’t active on Instagram so hadn’t seen my messages.
Now it has been a month since her exams got over and she hasn’t replied. And i am confused whether i should wait or im i just wasting my time? Its kind of driving me crazy, i don’t know what to do because I really like her but on other hand i just think she will never reply. Or perhaps she has seen the messages and has just ignored them. I don’t know what is the right solution for my situation?
Tl;dr: I like a girl from high school. I contacted her after 7 years and confessed my feelings via DM but she did not reply. Im i wasting my time or should I wait?
4 comments
Let it go. She didn’t reply and you’ll look to obsessed if you keep contacting her.
You’re absolutely wasting your time.
You gotta stop amigo, you are extremely obsessive (even stalkerish?) over something that never even was, it’s really not healthy. Maybe get some counseling?
Kinda creepy, let it go.