I (25m) am dating this girl and I like her (f27). The next date I would like to make a move and either kiss her or initiate some touch (non sexual, hugging or maybe stroke her hair, whatever feels right). I’m just unable to think a strategy on how to do it to not seem awkward.
Not sure where we will go the next date, but our first date was last Sunday and we went for a park for over 3hs and we were just laying there in the park but we were about 30cm apart yet.. we have given each other a long hug when we said bye, but further that’s it. So breaking the touch barrier.. basically. No idea how to do it properly..
Any suggestions?
Please don’t moan about my naiviness 🙂 at least I’m learning! (Past abuse survivor for a third of my life).
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When she says something funny, you can always gently graze her knee with your hand to make a connection that you enjoyed the joke but very quickly and do NOT rest it on there. It’s a graze. I’ve seen several people do this very naturally and I’m always like 😮👏 But please make sure you’re reading the signals correctly and if you’re unsure, please do NOT do this.
If she mentions she’s a bit cold, ask her if she wants to get in here as in into your arm for a snug. Also seen this and was equally impressed.
If in doubt or remotely unclear, the sexiest thing is ASKING for consent. Nothing shows more respect than confirmation.