I turned 31 last June and I’ve been noticing my lack of interest in people. I stopped returning messages and deactivated all social media accounts. I treat everyone I deal with like a business partner. I say things in a professional manner but don’t go beyond that.
I asked myself why then concluded that I simply wasn’t interested. It’s like all the years of social drama and failed relationships made me bitter and distrustful towards others. I’ve grown impatient and I believe it’s rooted in being constantly ignored in a social setting; being the only guy who reaches out and not vice versa.
I’m worried about my mental health going forward. I am alone and I don’t seem to have a problem with it. My last vacation to Europe I was genuinely happy and content paying an escort.
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