Is this an experience shared across both genders?
For reference, I am a fit 28 year old male who enjoys lifting and generally look the part. I sometimes catch eye contact from the women around me even though i do my best to put my head down and grind. Im not sure if these extended looks are due to attraction or the likelihood that im lifting some seriously heavy weight. However, there are a few women who I see at the gym each day who make repeated eye contact with slight changes in expression over the course of my workout…
Will the gym-going women of this sub please cue me in so I don’t make the common mistake of misperceiving women merely existing as sexual attraction? Does tension exist sometimes from the women’s side? Id love to hear both sides input on the intricacies of gym sexual tension…
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I’m guessing 2/3rds of women, maybe more, just want to get their reps in and get the rest of their day done. A lot probably have full time partners and wouldn’t feel much for randos at the gym.
A small percentage might feel something for guys the gym, but it’s going to be in the minority, and it would be advisable to plan accordingly.
Vast majority want to just get their workout done and not notice any types of looks, let alone get any advancements. I do not want some random man checking me out in any way, whether it be sexual or my technique or anything, ever, when I’m in the gym. Or anywhere for that matter. I just want to exist in fucking peace even though I have tits and an ass.