Girl I’m seeing cums in 30 seconds and her light switch goes OFF. I take much longer to cum and require lot of non-penetrative action as well. What to do?

I’m a guy and I’m in a situation with this girl I’m seeing. She literally comes in 30 secondss top and only when she is on top. (If we do missionary, she wants me to pound her hard for a couple of minutes and then stop and doesn’t cum from it. Which leaves me unsatisfied too) And the moment she cums, she wants me to pull out, stop touching, stop kissing and just do nothing sexual at all and has huge refractory period before she gets hot again. I on the other hand take much longer to cum, love a lot of slow teasing, even when I’m inside her I like slowly building up to the hardcore fucking. Take a good 15 minutes and love a lot of kissing and caressing afterwards and have a small refractory period before I go again. We communicated and she herself voiced that she’d like to work on solutions where both of us are satisfied. Any ideas?