So I’ve been married for under a year but I knew this man before that and the marriage process took months. However since the start of marriage there was always issues, he has anger issues and is very mean and didnt even sleep on the same bed as me. If I were to go on his bed he would tell me to bring my own blanket and things even though we were both clean people idk why he was like this. He would not let me be touchy w him etc. anyways recently I’ve filed divorce because he did not want to be with me anymore but I just can’t get over it,, not because he was an “amazing person” but just the fact that he wanted me for marriage first and begged and fought to marry me and then now he’s the one who hates everything about me and wants a divorce. We would get into small arguments and he would lash out and make it HUGE and never forget it. How do I get over the idea of this I’m so tired of feeling unwanted. I wish I married someone else, someone who wanted me with them forever and didn’t waste my time.
Idk why I have strange attachment issues where I feel I can’t live without them but I 1000% can. How do I get over this?
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Everyone on here suggests therapy, and this is a good example of that. You may have issues with attachment and so on, so therapy will probably help you get into the right mind space.
Bi-polar either way need to get away from him
Therapy, definitely. This isn’t a thing you should try to solve on your own.
I wouldn’t know.
I also agree with therapy. Break ups are always hard.