I’m asking because I get pressured a lot by my friends and family and I don’t see myself taking the steps cause I figured out I don’t need one. I had my first kiss and beyond that.. The only thing I didn’t have is sex but I don’t think I need it. Letting one out is just as fine before sleep as that for me. As for the compainionship friends family and my dog just do fine and I like to be alone more anyways. So what’s your thought
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You know what boundaries you need because you’re you. Noone else knows you as well as yourself. If intimacy is too much for you, it’s too much.
Of course you should definitely work through your trauma tell the people who pressure you that you aren’t ready and may never be ready if that’s what you want
If you dont feel Like needing someone Special then why should you search for someone. If your Life ist fine as it is why bother changing it.
I am Not a big Ladys Guy myself but. For the start (If you dont Like Dating Apps) the best Thing you can do to even have the Chance to find someone is by going Out. Show yourself to the world and try to be Open/friendly to Others. Maybe try New Hobbies wirh more group focused aspects or find activities that are based in Meeting people. Concerts, hiking groups, … Or ask your Friends to show you around.
(Also english is only my secondary language but I Hope you can understand my advice above.
Greetings from Germany 🇩🇪 )
Make sure its because you do not want it because that is who you are, and not because you want to avoid pain that came from previous experiences.
It would be a shame for you to miss out on something.