Don’t apply every bit of social advice with everyone, genuinely analyse who they are as a person, listen to what they are saying and talk to **them**. Not some template of who you think all humans are or you will seem fake.
Everyone is different so talk to different people how you believe they’ll understand. Don’t force yourself into a box for who you think people would like
I had to deal with this whenever I would talk to someone who wasn’t in my small close friendship group and this advice helped