Hey, This is going to be a longer post bc I (24) have to explain a little bit. Also my english is not the best bc it isn’t my first language, so sorry for mistakes ^^
It all started in 2019. I had an male best friend (23) besides my boyfriend. They were also best friends for a couple of years. Due to some stress between them my boyfriend ended their friendship. But I remained to stay in friendship with the other guy. I ended my training as a dental assistant. And my boy best friend confessed his feelings for me. I told him that I didn’t knew what I wanted and that I loved my boyfriend and won’t leave him. And I thought he understood. I was a bit confused bc I didn’t know to that time what my feelings were. But I knew that I loved my boyfriend more than anything and I didn’t want to lose him in my life bc he loved me for who I am and helped me very much in my life. We know each other since we were 12. I was bullied for many years and he helped me to confront my mobbers. He was always there for me. I learned to love him like he is. He has ADHD and an autoimmune disease so he isn’t very easy to handle for everyone. He has problems to concentrate when I tell him something. He had times where he talked a lot… Like really much. So he didn’t listen to me when I wanted to tell him things. My best friend in the other hand always listened to me in that time. So I felt heard and validated… Fast forward.. I drove over an red light and got flashed by a camera. So I had to do an advanced seminar…. The roads to the location was shitty af… Many curves and many tractors and trucks crossed my way… So I asked my boy best friend for the next appointments if he could drive me to the location… And he did… The fourth day out of five he decided it would be an good idea to kiss me on my mouth after the appointment… In front of everyone that was there with me… Little did I know that there was a dude that knew my boyfriend… The dude and the brother of my boyfriend are friends and they all life in the same village…. And bc the dude saw that my best friend drove me there… He told my boyfriends brother… So on the day my best friend kissed me the brother + the best friend of my boyfriend were also there and filmed the kiss…. My boyfriend later called me and told me his car broke and I should come and take him with me in my car… I told him that my best friend is driving me home and either he has to wait till I am home and get in my car or my best friend takes him with us… He agreed on my best friend taking him… As we drove there my boyfriend, his brother and his best friend were standing outside… I knew that something was wrong… My boyfriend told me to get out of the car so i did… And his brother told my best friend to stay the fuck in the car… They were all three really fucking mad… I spoke to my boyfriend and told him that it was an misunderstanding… That I didn’t want him to kiss me… He believed me… But his brother and best friend didn’t… Some time flew by and my boyfriends brother told everything their parents… Because he doesn’t like me… Idk why.. Since that day the parents of my boyfriend don’t know that we are still together and they hate me… I boyfriend is afraid to tell them because he thinks he would be thrown out…
For a better understanding my boyfriend and I are together since January 2017 and his parents don’t know that we are together since August 2020.
I hope someone has advice for me on what to do. It is a bit different to plan our future when they don’t know anything from us or even hate me. Also I am living on my own.
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Cheater. You belong in the streets