Is it wrong to still have pictures of ex Gf

12 comments

1. Yes is wrong, or at the very least, disturbing

2. Ethically not great but you’re definitely not alone

3. You know your girlfriend. If she found out, would she be upset? If so, it is wrong (if you care about the relationship).

4. Big yikes. Why do you look at them? Id be super hurt as the gf

5. I don t have a gf at the moment but i do have pics of the girl i ve been with before. It ended pretty well and i ve made a lot of good memories so it s gonna be tough to erase them

6. Delete em bud. Its over. move on.

   Also, not sure of the legality of that but i wouldnt risk it.

7. How would you feel if the situation were the other way around?

8. >Current GF is not aware- I’d this OK?

   There’s your biggest problem, the fact that you’re doing this while you’re with someone else.

9. If you were single it could be ok

   But hiding from your gf is fucked up

10. I think it’s fine.

11. it’s fuckin weird bro.

12. Probably not a good idea. I remember after my breakup with my college GF I shortly started dating another girl while on a co-op rotation in the 90’s. My college GF did a series of nudes for me but I had them the old fashioned way – developed from film from one of those little blue huts with a yellow roof. Anyways, I had one still floating around after the breakup and it was in my wallet. It was very tasteful and she looked stunning – great rack, bush trimmed very nicely and she was wrapping up in a lacey shear fabric of some kind. It was really hot.

    The new girl I was dating was going thru my wallet and happened to find it. I actually forgot it was there. Things were pretty – awkward – and she gave me a real piece of her mind. She took it and ripped it up right in front of me. I was thinking “you have no right to do that!” but of course I kept my mouth shut. The new girl was pissed but we got thru it. Been married to her now for over 25 years.

    Good times!