Approaching women while on vacation:

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1. Are you the one on vacation or are the women on vacation and you are a local? And are you at a resort, in a new city, etc. Some more details and I think I have a few tips.

   Personal experience, I find approaching women when I am traveling and on vacation to be 1000x easier. You are relaxed because you are on vacation, you are supposed to be relaxed. That gives off good vibes to people. Also, you’re likely from somewhere they never been and that makes you interesting! Second, if they know about the place and have been there, boom you already have something in common!

   And if you worry about rejection, you won’t have to because the chances of running into the same women again are probably the equivalent of being struck by lightning. Traveling/vacation can be a great time to build some self confidence and take some risks.

2. Dating apps have a location thing, just select hook- ups… okcupid has it and so does bumble, some of these are owned by the same company so just jump on a site,

   but tell people about yourself… that’s what the profiles are for, present accurately, good photos and real name and stuff. Then go through the apps paces and give a quality/informative bio. I don’t care if it’s boring… just tell me stuff that’s true.

   That’s how you cut the small talk.

   Be honest… in town want to meet up go dancing, hike, and also mark the relationship type youre seeking accordingly.

   Don’t choose looking to meet new people option if your dtf.

3. Ask them where they’re from, where they’re going! Talking to women on vacation is *so* easy. Everyone is so excited to talk about their travels. If you are well traveled, impart your knowledge. If you aren’t, ask for tips! People love to talk about their own travels.

   If you’re talking about approaching locals, then ask about what are the cool things in the area. People will love to talk about their home, and will love to impress you and show you around. Talk about the things you might have heard about, people will love to tell you about the places you talk about (Oh yeah X is amazing, you should definitely go! cool, wanna come with?).

   Where are you going? Picking up women traveling is like shooting fish in a barrel. If you make an effort to learn the local language (like 3 weeks of duolingo before you travel), that scores *major* points.