So this guy (24m) and I (23f) have been talking for a month. It’s been great, and we decided to be exclusive (romantically and sexually). He’s already met my family and everything. It sounds like it’s fast, but things just happened naturally.
He wants to be “official”, and we basically are in a relationship. I’ve just been scared to put a label on it after rushing things with my past relationships, but after talking to my therapist I feel ready to do it.
I always make him plan our dates, and he’s already asked me like twice. So I want to pick him up, set up a picnic, and ask him to be my boyfriend with the whole flowers and dessert thing.
Is this stupid? Do people prefer like low key stuff? He’s appreciated the little gifts and effort I’ve put in so far. He’s super sweet, I just want him to feel special.
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He’s asked you twice and you’ve been making him wait so it is 100% appropriate for you to make a little extra effort to do something special and ask him as your way of saying yes. It’s not stupid, it’s sweet. And I’m guessing he’ll be relieve and really happy you went through the trouble to make him feel special. Have fun with it.
Seems a little fast.
Very romantic, not stupid!
I personally wouldn’t like it as a man. I would think that it would be his job to ask you to be in a relationship. You are a masculating him.
The gesture is romantic, but I think you’re both moving very fast. You have only been dating one month, exclusive for less.
I would be over the moon if a woman I was seeing planned a special picnic for me like that.