From the title alone, this might seem good and something to congratulate somebody for. But it absolutely is not for me. I (M19) finally lost my virginity to another guy (M18), and he topped me. He seemed to have really liked it. But for me? I hated it. His dick was musty and his breath smelled like morning breath + coffee. I gagged a few times while giving him head, but not from his size, but from his smell. I brought it up to him during the deed and he washed it for me, but it wasn’t a matter of washing at the moment. He was just unhygienic. I was so sick of it that I just finished him off and left. He’s still messaging me, multiple times a day even to meet up again and I do NOT know how to break it to him that I don’t want to ever go near him ever again. I feel so disgusted with myself and I have completely lost my sex drive. I haven’t masturbated in SO LONG. Which is saying something because I am still a very hormonal teenage boy. Can somebody please tell me how to deal with these emotions? Or at least tell me how to break it to him. Gently. He seems sensitive and I don’t wanna hurt his feelings. Thank you.
tldr // guy i had sex with was unhygienic but hes oblivious to it and he still wants to have sex but i dont want to anymore.
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You have to stop avoiding the issue and tell him directly that he needs to work on his hygiene before you have more sex with him. You could work around this by taking a shower together and brushing your teeth together but this is a passive way of addressing his hygiene. The r/sex FAQ has a section about [hygiene and safety](https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/wiki/index/#wiki_hygiene_and_safety) that includes a link to an article about genital hygiene and how to taste better. You should send him a link to this article.