Just looking for some advice really, little backstory, I got married around 6 weeks ago, and roughly 3 weeks into that I found out my wife had been sleeping with our maid of honours teenage (legal age but still creepy to me) son. Maid of honour is of course furious also, and after a few weeks of debating it I’ve decided that this is unforgivable and there’s no way forward.
I spent £26,000 on the wedding with £15,000 of that being debt that I’m still going to be paying back for a while.
What are my options here? I know I can’t get a divorce until 1 year of marriage, and I don’t think I qualify to get the marriage annulled? Feeling pretty lost and just want to cut all ties asap to start moving on with my life.
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Lawyer up and make sure your finances are secured.
So just live like you are divorced until you get divorced. Move out. No sex, no contact.
Definitely seek real legal advice. We’re not experts here. I’m so sorry this happened to you.
Talk to legal and see if you can get an annulment. You are only 6 weeks out. If she was sleeping with him before and after then you may be lucky. Again, talk to an attorney.
https://www.gov.uk/how-to-annul-marriage
Annul that shit, get whatever you can from that treacherous tramp and learn from this experience. Sorry man, this undoubtedly sucks hard.