Here me out. The first (and the last time so far) that i had sex was years ago.
I know i love sex, i mean, i pleasure myself almost everyday but the thing is, I can’t stand a stranger touching my body (ONS, casual sex, etc).
The usual people that turned me on were from afar and the most that i’ve done so far is buy myself a dildo (which helped).
But I miss the warm body, the moaning and stuff like that.
My plan is to go were my usual people lives but it’ll take me years (also healing atm from a LDR).
So yeah, no question, really. Just sighing out what i feel. Or maybe some advise? Anyone with the same situation?
Hope this won’t attract creeps in my inbox. Just sharing.
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>Hope this won’t attract creeps in my inbox. Just sharing.
Thanks for the lols.
Yeah the idea of casual sex/fb situation doesn’t appeal to me and still healing from a broken relationship. Last had sex 2019. Hang in there. We are born again virgins lol. Hopefully this is one of those time patience is a virtue again
I had a bad experience, with a man in January of 2020 and haven’t been with anyone since. I almost prefer masturbation over sex, due to some of my insecurities. The thought a stranger, someone I will never see again or have to hide anything from, really turns me on and I don’t think I could turn that situation down.
I couldn’t ever have a ONS it has never appealed to me. And I need to have feelings for someone before I can do anything with them. I’m waiting to meet someone after a year+ of talking online to see where things go but its been over 2 years since I was last with someone and while I miss being close to someone, I’d rather be alone than go near some random for action.
Well I’m sorry for you I hope it turns around for you never give up and think positive happy thoughts. 🌷🌷💕
I never got into ONS’s. i had a couple of them around 21-23 but after that i knew i wasn’t into it and wanted to pursue someone for real and build a kosher relationship and still do. having sex with a stranger and then never seeing them again does nothing for me. If i have a ONS that turns into something serious, that would be ideal for me. the last time i had sex was this summer in mid july.