I am absolutely in love with a guy and I want to try dirty talking but I don’t know how to ask it ,he constantly asks me about what I like but I find myself very embarrassed wording these things out.i want to try dirty talk but with a hint of cuteness,I dont want to use strong words.i like being called pretty and cute.how can I ask him without sounding creepy or embarrassing?
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“I would really like it if you said something like this (insert words) while we are having sex.”
When I got into dirty talk it was really basic, my gf at the time didn’t run it by me or anything she just started asking me questions. “Do you like that” “ do you like my pussy” “do you like my tight pussy” it just naturally escalated. Maybe approach it that way if you want
Do you want to talk dirty or do you want him to?
> .i want to try dirty talk but with a hint of cuteness,I dont want to use strong words.i like being called pretty and cute.
Just say exactly that.
I also like “flirty” talk a lot (i.e. dirty talk with lots of mutual loving praise and a mix of dirty and cute), and it’s good to be specific about it, so you don’t get hit with the porno quotes as opposed to what you actually want
As other commenters have mentioned, get his perspective. You may be surprised at what you find out. My husband and I both assumed that the other was “too good” or innocent for dirty talk. Well, we were both wrong. Being each other’s subject for the dirty talk turned out to be a huge turn for both of us. It actually helped my self-confidence in the bedroom a lot.