Little bit of background: We’re both 19 going to the same college. Originally were friends but we hooked up twice towards the end of the year but never clarified anything. We live on opposite coasts so our communication right now is just texting.
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My problem is that she is EXTREMELY inconsistent and honestly bipolar when it comes to texting. For example a few nights ago she messaged me at 2AM about her burnout, we have a 2 hour conversation about it and then snap nonstop through that day but then she suddenly just doesn’t respond/leaves me on read. Stuff like this has happened throughout the summer every few days which is really frustrating.
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I don’t really get her intentions. I at times get the feeling that she obviously isn’t interested but then the next day she sends a bunch of TikToks in a row or snaps me about her day. I’m annoyed because she frankly has all the control over our relationship.
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What should I do?
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Bro, you’re both 19 and live on opposite coasts? And shes acting weird. Dude there’s no relationship here. Is it really worth it for you to invest time and emotions into this? Get a girlfriend you can actually see in person.