Hello! Throwaway account because some mutual friends know my main account. Sorry for my English, it isn’t my native language.
So, I need some advice about what to do now. For some context, I (24f) met this guy (25m) face to face through some mutual friends a couple of months ago at a party and I thought that he was really cute. We talked a little bit nothing much and one of my friends said that he and I go to the same gym but we never saw each other. Since that night, I see him often at the gym and we just say hello to each other.
2 days ago I found him on Tinder and we matched. I didn’t send a message. He didn’t send a message. 15 min later I met him at the gym, I got super awkward and I said hello from one corner of the gym to the other corner ahhaahahah
Now, I don’t know what to do… What would you do? Send him a message? Do you have any ideas? I wanted to say something funny but I don’t know what… Or is it awkward since the match was 2 days ago?
I’m really shy and I think he is too…
Thank you!!
TL;DR: Guy I know from gym got matched on Tinder. what should I do now
4 comments
You should just say… “I’m still waiting for you to ask me out…” it will show that you’re interested in him without explicitly stating that you are and it should kick him into action… that or talk to your mutual friend and drop some hints about hoping that he will ask you out… or there is the ever popular… ask him out yourself.
I’ve sent messages to girls I matched with weeks ago. That’s def not awkward. Just hit him with “What are you waiting for? Ask me out already”
You should just say… “I’m still waiting for you to ask me out…” it will show that you’re interested in him without explicitly stating that you are and it should kick him into action… that or talk to your mutual friend and drop some hints about hoping that he will ask you out… or there is the ever popular… ask him out yourself.
Just say you lack a gag reflex and he will 100% be down.