Not quite sure how to word this, but I’m 23F and have been sexually active for years and in that time have met a good few guys who do this. My bf did it yesterday jokingly after seeing it on a meme and it got me thinking. Asked him, no game – he doesn’t have a clue either.
You know when guys do that thing when they hook their thumb into the side of your mouth and you drool like a mastiff? What am I supposed to do with the thumb?! Are we expected to lick it? Bite it? Suck it? Dribble on myself? Pretty sure 90% of the time I’ve historically frozen and just left my mouth agape like I just got done scranning my breakfast crayons. I didn’t feel very sexy. I am slightly lost.
Pls advise
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Honestly, things like this are meant far more for the visual aspect than anything else. If you and your boyfriend do this more, just ask him what he’d prefer your reaction to be 😛
Simple. Tell your guy ahead of time you don’t like it. Why would it be sexy? Seems like imitation of porn, which we know is not real life or a good teacher. I would personally not do something like that without discussing ahead of time.
Personally, I prefer my SO to suck my thumb whilst I’m fucking her. Literally give a blowjob to the thumb.
Hands are one of the most sensitive parts of the body, the hands occupy the the largest space in the brain in terms of touch sensation. When my girl is sucking my thumb I can feel where her lips are, I can feel her tongue swirling, I can feel the warmth & moistness of her mouth. Add in simultaneous sex and its almost like having my dick in 2 places at once.
I’d suck it 🤪 give it a lil thumbjob
All of those sound great including just leaving your mouth agape, though my personal favorite is sucking it. Sorry you didn’t feel sexy doing it, but for what it’s worth, if a guy likes doing it, any way you react to it is probably driving him wild.