Hello! I am 21F and he is 21M. Backstory: to keep it short and sweet we broke up because I was insecure and clingy towards the end of our relationship. For some reason I felt very triggered (I have an anxious attachment style) and I would call him/ text constantly. We got past it several times but this was the last straw for him (as he should) and he broke up with even though he didn’t want to. Reason being he wanted me to heal individually. However, he acted very cold towards me and like the breakup had zero affect on him. We were together two and a half years so it shattered me. Fast forward months later we reconcile (last week) and he was sobbing breaking down to me how miserable he’s been without me. This was because we took a week of space (we talked everyday since the breakup lol) and I guess he realized what he would be losing. We decided to take things slow without the commitment of a relationship because we both still have growing to do. We agreed to go on dates, hang out & even have sexy time sometimes. However, everything is great in person but then over text hes so dry and nonchalant. He’s always been a dry texter but it’s making me more anxious because we are in a weird state. When I bring it up he says it’s going to take time to get back to where we were and I am pressuring him
TL;DR: I need advice on what my best course of action is & also some insight from men on if I should give him space etc.