My (26M) partner (27F) cums super quick. Like I know the joke is usually the man is quick on the trigger, but my female partner is actually far quicker.
She can only have one orgasm so unfortunately she isn’t able to just go from orgasm to orgasm until I’m done. She cums and that’s it, her body gets hypersensitive and she’s done. How do I ensure we are both satisfied during our escapades?
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This needs to be something she takes initiative on. And you just be supportive. If there is a position that’s hard for her to cum in, that’s where you start. Positions where she is in control would be beneficial so she can change her pace or rhythm to prevent her from cumming too fast.
She needs to let you know that she’s close if you’re in control so you can change what you’re doing.
Much of this falls under the category of edging which can actually make her orgasm even bigger and better.
But again, this effort and communication will mainly come from her. So there isn’t much you can do except talk to her about this and then listen to her during sex when she needs a change of pace.
I’d be happy to be in your situation. Perhaps you’re just able to get her off like no other man in the world can? Just a thought. Don’t automatically think of this as a bad thing.
if you want a magic fix let her take kratom (if legal in your country) just be sure to do your research beforehand because it also has other effects
Do some foreplay and make her give you head for awhile then take control like you described and hopefully you can cum together
Viagra +
Does she not have hands or a mouth?
Yeah you guys need to open a dialogue about this. There could be any number of reasons that she is one and done. Maybe she hasn’t found her multiple orgasm place/headspace/spot/thing yet. Let her know how hot she is to you and that you’d love to get her to have multiple orgasms at some point. See where she goes from there.
Start with a hand job/blow job and when you feel like it’s building up, finish inside her. You can usually keep going for a minute or two after ejaculating so that should be enough for her to come as well.
This was me when I first started having sex. I was so excited and turned on and in love and I couldn’t help but come and I was then done.
Honestly, the cure was practice. Over time I became less sensitive, and my body has learned to keep going after orgasm – easiest when the guy is behind maybe spooning as he isn’t hitting my clit.
It might take months of sex to get there, but it will happen if you are patient. If you are in it for the long haul, be patient and supportive and it will work out.