When did you stop caring in a relationship?

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1. When I realized I was pulling the weight for both parties in the relationship

2. When I realized I was being taken for granted and was only valued for what I could do for her, not for who I was.

3. I stop caring when silent treatment is pulled out. I’m willing to give a few hours of buffer to allow tensions to simmer down and get back together later, but if it’s going on day 2 of her refusing to talk to me over something petty that could have been resolved with a discussion, then it’s probably going to be called off within the month.

4. When she made it clear that I would have to take care of her every need but knew I couldn’t give her that. The math just didn’t work.

5. 5 minutes after she started talking

6. When it became clear that my needs as a human being meant nothing to her. I’m out

7. I wouldn’t say I stopped caring, but the love in the relationship was gone once I found out she was lying & also using drugs.