I might be having sex with a new person in a couple days and unsure of what to do with my hooha. I normally don’t shave, just trim. Right now, it’s trimmed but not like super-low trimmed. I don’t wanna shave completely either. I mean, the guy is 6 years older (almost 30) so I mean he shouldn’t have any issue with hair right?? Do y’all shave before a new link or what? I just don’t want it to be like some huge surprise or something to him. It’s not considered “hairy” right now, but idk if there’s like unspoken rules regarding pubes and new sex encounters lmao

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  1. I only trim. I do shave my pussy lips but other than that I only trim. Some men love bush some don’t. I honestly stoped grooming my pussy for other and only for myself. My husband loves it and so do others. Honestly do what you like best and if they don’t like it then they don’t get play.

  2. just imagine what kind of pussy you prefer too eat and do the maintenance based on that.

    and if you’re clean shaven doesnt mean you’re eager or going to surprise him. it can be it’s just who you are.

  3. I’d do what I consider sexy for myself. I like a bush in women, but I don’t care as much either. We should worry more about what we like in our bodies, not so much what other random people think.

  4. Truthfully he is going to be so excited about just being with you he probably really won’t notice if it is “tightly ” trimmed, trimmed/shaved in areas, or all natural (unless it hangs in braids to your knees). It’s a vagina.. He’s a guy. He’s thrilled.

  5. I don’t mind if a woman has hair, but I don’t like going down on a bush and I’m in my late 30s. If it’s well trimed I’m usually ok with that. I shave my balls and trim my bush very short because golden rule.

    End of the day though it’s personal preference.

  6. I got laser hair removal and left a triangle. There’s very little hair growth outside of the triangle, but before sex, I’ll shave the fine hairs.

  7. I don’t like to be bare, so no I don’t shave anything that I don’t already shave. I’m not going to tailor my body to someone else. If they don’t like hair, then I’d rather not sleep with them. The only thing I’ll consider is trimming the hair, so it’s not so in the way during oral. That’s really the extent of it.

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