How would you react to a girl kissing you on the first date?

32 comments

1. If I was into her, I would react by kissing her back.

2. Well, I’d react *accordingly*?

   At the very least, I’d be glad to confirm that there is at least mutual attraction.

3. I would be pretty taken.

4. id get a boner

5. Why these conventions, who should make the first step. Everyone can take the first step, and that’s fine. I would be charmed by the girl’s boldness and if I liked her already, I would hug her tighter and return the kiss.

6. Instant Hard-On

7. Happened to me, she took me by surprise completely, it wasnt supposed to happen. Twas.. à good feeling. Wonder how i would evolve if that was à thing.

8. If I liked her back. I’d kiss her back

9. If the date is going well I’d react well

   If not I’d politely pull away

   Basically it’ll speed us up in whichever way we are going

10. Very favorably. In fact I met my wife on a blind date, and that’s exactly what happened to me, and that first kiss was dynamite. It still is.

11. This happened to me a couple times while dating — it was a huge relief as I tended to be on the more shy side.

12. this subreddit is basically introverted dudes fantasizing about women always making the first move huh?

13. It depends if I want a second date or not.

    If yes, I kiss her back

    If not, I take a step back and state my desire to not date again.

14. Shoot your shot guys will be into it trust me I’m a guy 😁

15. I would be all about it

16. Is freezing a reaction?

17. Boner alert 🚨

18. When a woman goes out of her way to break the mold and do the unexpected just to express interest in me, it always captures my attention.

    To illustrate, a girl wanted to strike up a conversation with me a bit ago and so she asked me, “what are your dreams?”, I had never been asked this by a girl prior so it immediately took my attention. I like to think about it when I’m sad

19. surprised followed by happy.

20. Me: holds out open wallet. “This is yours!”

21. I’d be surprised if i got to the first date

22. Before I met my current partner I went on a date that, to put bluntly, didn’t go so well.

    She tried her best but I wasn’t feeling it, I think she thought that she could save the date by going in for a kiss which I politely rejected.

    When I met my current partner, we hit it off really well on our first date. Half way through the date that chemistry was there and the kiss happened naturally. She denies to this day that she “made the first move” (probably to give me an ego boost) but it was 100% her call.

    I’ve never been one to make the first move. But read the room, if you’re confident it’s going well, make a move! If you’re unsure, don’t push it and take the L. Perhaps it can be salvaged on a 2nd or 3rd date.

23. Neither my girlfriend nor I actually know who went for our first kiss. It just happened. I feel like that’s how it should be?

24. I would go on to Reddit and ask what I should do.

25. Define ‘kissing’.

    A peck on the cheek? Meh.

    A topographical exploration of my tonsils? Oh, yeah.

26. Kissing is fine. You’re both there for the same thing.

    I’ve had sex on the first date before and it seemed to complicate things going forward.

27. It led to her getting pregnant, an abortion and us not talking.

28. Is.. is this supposed to be unusual?

29. It’s pretty normal. I’d go for it

30. Sounds normal

    If i was into her i would go for it

31. Would think that’s very bold of you. It will be appreciated.

32. I was kissed by her and was surprised because I didn’t think the date went THAT well. She ended up ghosting me not long after lol.