I recently read some comments where someone mentioned it was really easy to make people cum from blowjobs.
I have never came from a blowjob. I’m married now but in the past I’ve dated some women who were really into sex and we would go for hours. I always enjoyed it and dealt pleasure Yet I never came.
Is this unusual? For reference it takes me about 15/20 minutes to masturbate on average
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Yes, that’s unusual in that the median time for a male to orgasm is much shorter and also a much shorter time is *preferred* by most couples.
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If my goal is to cum as fast as possible from a blowjob, and my partner knows which “buttons” to press, then yeah I can cum in under 5 minutes. I can also last much longer if I want to.
Personally, I’ve never had a problem cumming from a blowjob. That said, it’s something I absolutely adore from both a physical sensation as well as visual perspective. It’s feels very different to cumming elsewhere. Perhaps just relax into it and enjoy the ride. Hopefully you will get there eventually as it’s wonderful.
I find it fairly easy to cum from a blowjob. But I read here it is hard for some guys.
My husband cums easily from blowjobs. He sometimes wants it to last longer though, so he will say to me, “I don’t want to cum yet, baby” and I will back off his cock a bit and suck on his balls for awhile. If he wants to cum fast, he does in about 5 to 10 minutes from a blowjob.
I don’t cum easily from blow jobs.
My only piece of advice is that if you really want to cum from one is don’t masturbate or have sex for a bit, like 5-7 days. Your body will want to cum at that point so you will be ready.
On the day you are getting the blow job, edge yourself a few times but don’t cum before the big event. Now your body will be primed to orgasm. Then relax when getting the bj and try to breathe.
Ive found that once I was able to cum from a bj, the next times were easier.
Unfortunately I have reverted back to my old ways again because I don’t often cum in my wife’s mouth and my body and brain forget how to do it. So it’s difficult again. We plan on correcting the situation again soon, maybe as early as next week. I’m actually going to try to refrain from sexual activity this week and try a blow job again soon.
Every guy is different in what pushes their buttons quickest… I cum ridiculously fast from blowjobs but last a normal duration for piv.
I can’t speak for any majority of men, but I’ve never had an issue getting a man to cum from a blowie.
Most often, if it’s going on too long, I 69 him. It’s not about my pleasure, quite honestly getting eaten out distracts me, it’s so that he’s got my crotch in his face while I’m servicing him. It’s not particularly romantic or intimate, but it does wrap things up pretty fast.
Optionally, if you two have discussed it before, men also cum very quickly from a little ass play… but yeah, ask first.
A lot of women don’t understand how men would want their asshole right in their face while getting sucked off, because we’re not particularly visually-wired, but men tend to be and it’s quite effective.
Does she get really into giving head? Is she super enthusiastic about it? Does she deepthroat? Play with your balls? Rim you? Make noise? Make it sloppy? I may be way off base here, and I really don’t want offend anyone but…when I hear a guy saying they have a hard time cumming from a blow job, my first thought is, is he really getting a good blow job? I’ve given a lot of blow jobs to a lot of men and I’ve never come across a guy that had a hard time cumming. Again, there may be more to it, idk. Just thoughts.