Men of Reddit what are some deal breakers you have for dating?

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1. Bad attitude.

   Drug user.

   Crazy.

   Overweight.

   Fake hair colors.

   Pixie cuts.

   Dumb as dirt.

   Too much makeup.

   Underage.

   Any of those is a deal breaker.

2. Those dumbass angry-eye headlight cowls you see on almost every new Wrangler.

3. I don’t do drama. We can (and probably should) disagree about certain aspects of life, but if we can’t have a civil discussion, I’m out.

4. The usual stuff.

   Differing views on marriage, having kids, or monogamy. Drug use other than pot or excessive drinking. Lack of physical attraction or common interests. Our personalities just aren’t operating on the same wavelength.

5. Dishonesty. Disrespect. Rudeness. Abusiveness. Inability to take care of themselves. Disregard for their health. Disregard for others. Fans of the Pittsburgh Penguins.

6. Lack of boundaries

7. I don’t do exclusive relationships and won’t live together with a partner.

8. Must give blowjobs

9. If she’s in a relationship.

10. Children or a desire to have children

    Religion

    Smoker

11. If she’s not into me. That puts me off instantly.

12. Any signs of manipulation

    Being inconsiderate to others in public

13. If I get the slightest whiff of an impression that the person I’m dating is ‘making do’ or ‘settling’ with me, I’m out.

14. Cruelness

15. Not putting in equal effort into our sex life. I’m too tired of doing all the work to make that happen.

16. Identifying as a feminist. Why would I want to bring a person who hates me into my life?

17. – Drug user
    – is more overweight than me. It’s not because of it being “ugly” rather how is my dick meant to fit into that ass if that ass is bigger than the Eiffel Tower?

    – Underage
    – Cheats
    – Speaks lowly of their partners behind their backs

18. Any of those:

    Tattoos

    Overweight

    Dumb

    Rude

    Fake anything

    Lacking personal hygiene

19. Inflexible ideologies. We need honest communication and both of us need to have our opinions respected and considered. Anyone that calls me a sinner or considers any difference of opinion to be support for the patriarchy…. can find another place to be.

20. ONLY FANS

21. Wanting kids. I don’t want any.

    If you’re really passionate about politics, even if I agree with your ideology.

    Complaining without doing anything to change the situation.