Husband and I are 28/27. We’ve been talking about swinging, threesomes, public sex. I’m definitely more into it than he is. He’s said he’s into it but not at the moment, which is fine. I want to do a date with him this weekend where we can dip our toes into it. I suggested we go to a strip club together, but he said no. I thought that was a nice ease into it. But I’m looking for other ideas. Thank you!
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Lingerie night at the theater 🎥
Could go to a fancy restaurant and then “accidentally” drop something under the table, ask him to pick it up and flash him while he’s under the table.
Stranger at a bar. Pick a bar you two like then you go in first. He follows a few minutes behind you and both of you pretend to not know each other. You have drinks for awhile (during which you keep the charade up, flirting, etc.) then head home and pretend he is taking you back to his place for a one-night stand.
This provides a hot experience for many people where he can dip his toes into some non-vanilla stuff.
> I thought that was a nice ease into it
Even if he was into threesomes and the like, strip clubs just aren’t for a lot of people.
Have a quickie somewhere outside!!!
My wife and I are going to a high end spa/hot tub in a few weeks. We get one hour in a private (and quite luxurious) hot tub followed by an hour massage. Might be worth a try if you can find a nice place near you.