I’ve been tweaking out this week due to the chance of me getting my girlfriend pregnant. Around two or so weeks ago me and my girlfriend ‘tried’ having sex for the first time. This was kinda hard for the both of us because we’ve both never had any intimate experiences together.
Saturday 8/13
Before we actually did it, I fingered her and I think i was too rough because although she said she enjoyed it she started bleeding. The bleeding kinda made me freak out i was hesitant now about actually having sex. She managed to convince me to still try it so i opened a condom from my wallet but now I couldn’t get myself hard enough to put it on. I proceeded to go try to get myself hard in the bathroom but end up accidentally ejaculating inside the condom. This is my last condom on me so with my dumbass logic save the used condom and put it back in the wrapper. An hour goes by after watching moving and she wants to try again. I go to the bathroom to wash out the sperm from the condom several times with tap water and this time I’m actually able to get hard. So i go back into the room and try to gently go inside her. I was maybe able to get only tip In because she complained about the pain due to probably me being rough with my hands from earlier. I wasn’t able to get it in any further so we both just quit and finish the movie.
Next Week 8/15
Over the next week she started to complain about weird discharge,itching, burning, vaginal bleeding, painful urination and sharp sudden pains. I was freaked the fuck out and tried to help her the best i can. We determined she probably got vaginitis from me eating her out or fingering her. I gave her “azo” to help with the pain and she still has some itching today (a week later) but her symptoms are greatly improved. During this entire time i was also worried that using that condom also got her pregnant.
Yesterday
Last Friday I tested positive from covid and just and hour before I did i was in close contact with her and I’m assuming i got her sick. I’ve been home all weekend fighting covid while also tweaking about if i got her pregnant or not. Yesterday she started experiencing symptoms like cough, nausea, running nose, head ache. I’m scared that her getting covid will not have her skip her period which is the only thing that will have me believes she’s not pregnant
Tldr: im scared that after washing semen out of a condom with tap water i got my girlfriend pregnant with any residue even though i only put the tip in. She got vaginitis and covid shorty after we tried intercourse and its worrying me. Is there any possible way Shes pregnant?
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Nobody can tell you if she’s pregnant. She’ll have to take a test.
Yeah I have no idea. Washing the condom out was just careless, but you already know that. Her symptoms sound like a mix out a uti and maybe a yeast infection, but it’s hard to say. Why not just buy a pregnancy test to see.
She needs to take a test in a few days.
Don’t reuse condoms.
And I have to say, I’m somewhat impressed you managed to get that thing on for a second time. But please don’t try to impress me again. Don’t ever try this again.
You don’t show signs of pregnancy within days of having sex. So if you’re basing your worries on the symptoms she had the day after or so, those are not symptoms of pregnancy. Could be symptoms of an infection though, or general agitation. I don’t know what azo is, but is there a reason she didn’t go to a doctor if she’s having troubles with her vagina? Doctor’s obviously know better than you two do.
There’s been no mention of her period here. When does she get it? Is it missed? Usually, 2 weeks after sex, a pregnancy test would be accurate. Just double check the instructions on the test.
Sounds more like an infection. Also don’t reuse condoms
If somebody is sick whether it is the type of thing you describe or something else, go see a doctor. You’ll get good suggestions on here but it is pretty difficult to get a real diagnosis. It probably is nothing super serious, but it does require medical attention and proper treatment