I started texting this guy that I met from Tinder and it went super well. After one month of texting each other and calling each other for hours and hours, he finally comes to my city and spends the week with me. It was amazing. 2 weeks after, he comes again, and things are even more magical. We just kept texting and calling since, and things are going incredibly well.
Now, he talked about me to all of his friends, I did the same. He even talked about me to his parents, I did the same. He met my friends, I met his, everything went super well. We have a very intimate relationship but we still keep things simple and have fun.
The thing is that our relationship doesn’t have a label, and getting more attached to him, I wish I could tell him certain things without sounding clingy. But we are not a couple. I wish he knew how happy he makes me feel without sounding like a psycho.
I’m scared that he thinks that because I have feelings for him, I’m gonna act weird or get crazy or obsessed. I’m also scared that he thinks that it’s going too fast. Yeah we only met twice, but we’ve been talking and calling each other for 3 months straight. So I feel like I already know him enough to develop some kind of affection.
I already talked about that with him, and he told me that his interest for me keeps growing, but he’s very shy when we have to talk about this topic so I don’t wanna push him. I guess if he wanted to be in a relationship he would’ve asked me.
Tl;dr : everything is in the title
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Yes some kind of affection. Maybe not love, first before all of that why not ask him if he’s open to putting a label
I would probably talk to him about being in a relationship before you say you love him.
you can love someone without telling them immediately. when the moment is right you’ll probably just say it. i would advise waiting until you’re labeled. that is something you should ask. good luck.
Does he call you his girlfriend to his friends and family?