Me 21F, he 25M
So we met online, and got interested in each other and he said he likes me and it was kinda mutual.
All was going well, cute texts and relationship memes and all when he suddenly GHOSTED me.
Unfollowed and unfriended.
Which I realized after 3 days of no text.
Loads of cajoling and texting on different social media led him to explain the reason of ghosting, to which he says that he thought I was catching feelings and didn’t think it right to give me false hopes and so he backed off and thought I’d forget him.
Now he says that he likes talking to me and would love to do cute relationship (or dating) stuff with me when the time is right, but before that he needs to meet me and be sure of me if we commit.
What should I do?
(Ps. I was in quite a bad state of mind after being ghosted, I didn’t know what happened, did he become offended for anything, what did I do to deserve this, etc etc, many sad things such that people asked me if I had a breakup!)
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Yeah, I wouldn’t be getting invested in some online person, so it makes sense to meet. I know more and more people are doing this online relationship thing where they’ve never met, but in the main, for a lotta people, they still doesn’t make sense. Having said that, he ghosted and was good to leave it and it seems you had to chase him to get some response. Personally, if someone wants to ghost, I’d let them, but if you want to meet up with him, then that’s upto you