So me (F19) and my bf (M34) he won’t fuck me and idk if it’s because of the age gap . He won’t tell me . He rarely wants any sex at all . Most of the time I just have to masturbate or use a toy on my own . he will only finger me maybe one ever 2 weeks . I’m lost at what yo do because Iv asked him a lot .
I’m a virgin and want to loose it to him
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Try to discuss the issue with him. If there is no improvement, move on
If you can’t even talk openly about this, this isn’t working.
Yeah this does not in any way shape or form represent a healthy relationship. Why haven’t you bought this up before? This sounds very unhealthy. Please talk to him about this. And maybe this is not the right man for you right now.
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So, huge age gap. And he doesn’t want to have sex, which is odd but okay. Are you sure he’s your BF, or are you the secret he’s hiding from his family?
Low testosterone possibly. Get him checked at an endocrinologist. See if he has other symptoms of low testosterone. I’ve heard of guys that want nothing to do with sex and low energy etc then get out on TRT and turn into horn dogs!
If the age gap was a problem for sex, it would be a problem for being your boyfriend, too.