This is not fun for me, to have to ask for advice on a matter like this. I didn’t think I’d have this problem, but here I am. I (22f) have been with my first boyfriend (23m) for around 5 months now. I lost my virginity to him a couple months ago. It felt okay, I figured it’d get better with time, but I’m actually experiencing the opposite problem. We had sex last night, he never lasts very long so we tried to last longer. The friction is nice and all, but I’m not feeling much pleasure. I don’t know if it’s because his penis isn’t very big or what. We never use condoms. We do foreplay beforehand. We’re both big people so we’re mostly limited to missionary and a few other positions. Am I doing something wrong? How can i make it feel good?
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A lot of women can’t orgasm from piv sex alone. So have you tried oral sex? Or maybe adding clit stimulation?
Lol, you guys need to talk about how to make sex pleasurable for both of you. You guys need to explore what turns you on and what’s pleasurable for you. You might find that it’s not PIV or it’s more likely that PIV alone is not enough stimulation. Let me ask you when you guys are having sex, do you touch your clit? Does he touch your clit? Do you guys use toys, oral? PIV for most women feels good but is not enough to orgasm from, combined PIV with clit stimulation often is needed for women to have an orgasm. Talk with your partner and try to explore a little bit with a focus on your pleasure.
He needs to make you cum first with his tongue before he can stick his cock inside you! Make him promise to do that beforehand or NO MORE PUSSY for him.