as i grow older i feel like its hopeless trying to find some like-minded people that i can hang out with. it seems like a lot of the people i know are very immature (as in, they tried to punch me after i spoke up about racism even though we are all adults) or dont share common interests with me. even the friend that shares common interests with me is a bit of an asshole herself. i really dont know if its my bad social skills, being around the wrong people, or a combination of these things. am i the problem? how do i stop feeling disconnected from people and actually build close friendships?