I need genuine advice on how to handle taking a big dick better. I (24F) have been hooking up with this guy (24M) for a few weeks now. We really enjoy each other’s company and getting to know him has been like spending time with someone I’ve known for years. I wish sex was just as easy. His penis is the largest penis I’ve ever dealt with. While soft, it’s halfway up my forearm and thicker than my wrist. I stay well hydrated, I have used lube, I have taken teas to increase blood flow, he goes down on me beforehand to make sure I am fully aroused. And still we have yet to get past the point of him being able to slowly inch his way all the way in, stay there for several minutes and then and I’ll grind on it a little but once he starts to get a good stroke going I feel like I’m tearing. If I try to push it too far my vagina starts to close up and just push him out. And he loses his erection the second he thinks I might be in pain. He hasn’t orgasmed with me yet either. He’s very patient, reassuring, and says he’s just happy to be there but I want nothing more than to be able to make him orgasm. Can someone please give me advice on more things I could do to help.
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It all about patience and he is doing that. Time and you may never fit it all.
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it is already a good pre-condition if he is sensitive and patient with you. probably you need much more patience and trust, because it is almost never a technical problem. mostly women are so irritated and surprised by a very large penis, do not know how to deal with it and then tense up.
if you manage to see everything a little more relaxed, if necessary have fun even without penetration, then eventually you will also be ready for his big. if he has already had sex with other women he will know how careful and patient he must be, always go by how it is comfortable for you, no fast, hard and deep strokes.
Does he get it in enough for you to come? Or just so painful can’t even enjoy it even super sloppy wet… reason I ask is if you can ever get the whole head and maybe like one or two inches in, and he can wiggle or thrust gently I think you both might be able to come.
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