i’ve been dating this girl for 6 months, and we’ve been having really good sex!
however, i wanted to try something other than the fairly vanilla stuff we do, so i thought of doing a nuru massage for her.
we’ve both agreed on this and are really excited to do it, but i was wondering if there are any other sensual/erotic things to do that aren’t necessarily just PIV?
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Oh tons. First off, all the oral situations. Next butt stuff. Those are my absolute favorites. Sometimes we’ll rent a motel room in the town we live in just because fucking in a motel room feels a lot kinkier. The whole ride there, and checking in, knowing you have a bag full of sex toys and lubes is really erotic. Also experimenting with sex toys for that matter. Get a couple vibrators and/or dildos and just try them out!
Alot.
Blowjob can be amazing, 69 position with it.
Soft bdsm, tie her up a little, put blindfold on her. And then tease her, lick her up while using fingers on her, etc. Some girls will scream from pleasure 🙂
Sex toys, try that. Options are endless here, from vibrators to dildos to butt plugs, etc. Massage her with vibrators without penetration and see her reaction, or just try to use dildo on her and penetrate her with it. Saefty here! Use body safe materials like glass, metal, silicone. Inside ass anything without larger bottom part ots just no go since asshole can suck it inside!
Role playimg stuff. Crrate some sexy scenes, use your imagiation
Anal stuff can feel amazing like licking her out though make sure yoiu are both clean and stdi free. After that maybe anal sex? Though go slow, for first few times a buttplugs and lots of lube will help.
Let her do ass stuff on your end. Trust me its nothing gayish here or to be ashamed off at all, it can feel amazing. Let her use fingers on you or small toys for start and advance slowly. After few sessions try a dildo and let her penetrates you, some girls gets sattifaction looking at their man having a good time :). She can also try to put harness on aka strapon and feels what to mean being in control with penetration. Also if you are ok with it try put some women clothing on yourself! Again nothing to be ashamed of. My fav fantasy is to let my future gf which im stil looking for penetrates my ass using a dildo while i am wearing white stay on stockings. Again dont be ashamed of! In bedroom if you both agreee and its not outside a law nothing is werid!
Just few ideas.