Hey everyone,
I need your advice. I had sex with a co-worker after way too many drinks and the whiskey dick happened. It wasn’t a huge deal for me, we did everything else, I gave him head for a loooong time, haha, and he even told me that the head I give is amazing 🙂
The next morning was awkward though, so I just took my clothes and left his place. We then didn’t see each other at work for a while as he was on a holiday. He wrote me from his holidays a few days after to ask how i am. but then didn’t ask further questions so I ended the conversation to wish him a nice holiday.
We saw again at work since, and he is very quiet there but that’s always the case. So basically nothing changed at work.
I am really sexually interested in this guy and would like to give it another shot, but I have absolutely no clue if he thinks the same. He is so hard to read.
I don’t know if he is embarrassed or not into me at all. Would a guy typically not ask you to do it again if he would find you attractive? Should I ask him? Could he probably be too afraid because he couldn’t get hard? Even if he is an attractive, self-conscious guy?
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Just ask him.
Talk to him! Communication is always key!
Relationships in the workplace can be problematic, but then I don’t know how closely you work together of if one is the superior of the other.
Maybe he’s just shy? Men can be shy 😉
Considering je tried reaching out to you and has had sex with you, i’d say he is interested in you but probably thinks you are avoiding him.I think he is into you but you should of course ask him to be sure.
As a guy normally you get one chance. And whats worse is his nerves are going to hit a second time. Get a dick pill for safe measure. Go out and before yall close the night give it it’s recommended time.
>it provokes the desire, but it takes away the performance
William Shakespeare, Macbeth
Communication is key. The only way to know if he’d like to see you again is to ask him out on a date. You’re probably at an impasse because he’s overthinking that night just like you are. That’s why you need to cut to the chase and ask him out.
***Talk to him***.
>He wrote me from his holidays a few days after to ask how i am. but then didn’t ask further questions so I ended the conversation to wish him a nice holiday.
So you didn’t have the conversation that you needed to have, and then when he reached out to you while on vacation, you shut down the conversation when it started struggling instead of taking some initiative.