Here’s the thing. I’m very satisfied with sex and simulation. I’m not sure why but I can’t seem to finish when I’m with a partner no matter how hard we try (It doesn’t bother me but my partner always feels bad about it). Anyway, I still enjoy sex and think it feels really good. The last time I received oral sex, it was some of the best I’ve ever received, I was moaning non-stop and shaking by the end of it. I couldn’t make a coherent sentence and had to have a couple minutes to reassess myself. I felt all of this but I didn’t finish. I might’ve been having mini orgasms maybe? I’m confused I had to pee at the time and that made me feel more pressure. He was fingering me and eating me. But I’m more than positive I didn’t reach orgasm. Although I felt 110% satisfied. Was it possibly a different type of orgasm? Does that exist?
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There can be different types of orgasms for sure. Women are known to has nipplegasms, assgasms, vaginal orgasms, clitoral orgasms, and even just mental orgasms. Some are highly localized, other can feel like a full body orgasm. It really doesn’t need to have a label on it if you are 110% satisfied.
I’m often the same way. I can, and have orgasamed with partners before. But it’s for sure not everytime and I’ve had more and more trouble coming with a partner in the last few years.
But, I still find sex to be amazing. Penetration feels good, being touched, touching, it all feel amazing. I really love when the guy comes. Like you said, when I’m being eaten, the entire thing feels amazing not just the orgasm. It’s like a fireworks show…the show is good, the finale is good but even without the finale, the show would still be very enjoyable.
For a long time it bothered me that I often cannot cum, because I felt like it should bother me. But I’ve found that when I can just enjoy sex and if it happens it happens and if it doesn’t it doesn’t, then I enjoy it so much more.
Denial is often more pleasurable than orgasms in my experience.