cant talk to people of interest .

I have no problem talking to anyone, weather they are male or female. However, as soon as it is someone I find very physically attractive. I cannot do it. I get all shy and nervous. This means, and sorry if it sounds rude, that I have only been with people I don’t actually find attractive. And yes theres more to looks and I’ve met some amazing and lovely people. But be nice to be physically attacked to someone i like.

Any one else have this problem? And did you manage to fix it or not? Of so, what worked for you?

I know it’s something to do with that, if I find them attractive, I put more pressure on my self to impress. Where as someone I don’t care for their opinion, means I can be my self with no stress. Which works better as then, I know we both get along . And yes a person grows more beautiful the more you get along and know each other. But could you imagine the beauty if its someone you were weak for before.