what’s the cons of being too foraward in a relationship?

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1. I don’t think their is none unless your being Uber crazy and demanding about it

   I think relationships are mostly about matching energy so if they can’t match than they can’t match and the shits not working imo

2. If you are already in a relationship, this shouldn’t be a problem?

3. Would only say there is one potential con, and that is if your partner frequently gives off signals that they aren’t uncomfortable with your forward behaviour. Unfortunately, some people completely lack the awareness to read the obvious signs that the other person is not comfortable and their boundaries are being crossed.

   For better or for worse, it means tone it down or end the relationship as you are both clearly playing a game with different rules which isn’t good for anybody.

4. The way I figure is I should just be myself, if something about that scares them off then good, better to find that out sooner rather than later

5. About what?

6. Once I read this question I figured a woman is writing this. This isn’t a question guys ask often because based on experience of being the initiator he’s going find out right away based off the other person’s reaction whether he’s being too forward.

   First in order to know if you’re being too forward is to ask them.

   Cons: if you keep crossing their boundaries it will come off as a lack of respect. That a good and quick way to torpedo a relationship (romantic or platonic).

7. You can’t be too forward if you’re already in a sexual relationship.

   You can be tactless and inconsiderate and aggressive and an asshole, though.