I consented to the sex, but I insisted on a condom and he put it in raw anyways. I can’t sleep and I am worried out of my mind. We barley had vaginal sex because I freaked out but I am so worried I’ve done irreversible damage to my body. I don’t know what to do

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  4. You consented to *protected* sex. I’m sorry he disregarded your boundaries and assaulted you.

    As for the STI risk, get tested in a few weeks and then again in three to six months. If you get unusual symptoms, test then. Really try not to worry. I know it’s terrifying, but you’ll be okay.

    If HIV is a concern and it’s within three days of the incident, you can discuss Post-Exposure Prophylaxis with a doctor to determine if it’s right for you.

    I’m so so sorry again that he did this.

  5. Pretty sure this is not consensual sex you’re describing. Did you tell him to stop when you realized he didn’t have it wrapped anymore?

    I’d visit a medical professional in the coming days, not much you can do now. I’d also consider legal action, especially if you do get an STD.

  7. To hopefully relieve some stress, there isn’t any STD’s today that can’t be cured or treated with modern drugs. Even if a person has AIDS the advancement in medicine means that aids won’t be the disease that kills said person. I know it’s scary for you but if having sex is something your going to take part in. It can be a good thing to research about topics your worried about. But in doing research you have to decide what’s a credible source vs something that was wrote years ago. Or people on Reddit aka me. So I hope this helps with your anxiety a little bit.

    Credibility: Pharmacy tech +6 years

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