23M wants to to better with women

5 comments

1. you being a virgin or brown(?? literally why would you mention that) doesn’t matter, just be more charismatic, have a solid set of friends, and better yourself

2. Stop puttimg girls on a pedestal. Go out and Genuinely connect with women in real life e.g. ask how they are, their hobbies, interests, goals, opinions, etc. Listen and pay attention to what people say. Share those things about yourself when asked. People also subconsciously attach you to the value you bring. The value you bring is a clear, unique, and convincing reason why people will interact with you, let alone do so constantly. So Find ways to add value to their lives. Having In person interactions is the easiest way to stand out from countless people who text or message. People remember and favor in person interactions because of the positive vibes. If your hobbies, skills, talents align with their interests or can help them, bring it up and offer to help them. Finally, learn how to be genuinely busy in your life pursuing your goals and hobbies, while interacting with people on the side. People are hardwired to be repulsed by neediness and desperation and instead gravitate towards those who are self confident and well rounded in life. They want to see active confirmation of you actually doing something in your life other than just talking to them. So chase excellence, not people.

3. Honestly, let’s say you have managed to slim down to a good weight…btw, what’s the goal for your weight loss? You manage to get a girlfriend…does your world suddenly change to revolve around her? Do you know how annoying it is to have someone put you on a pedestal when you don’t want to be there?

   If you get a girlfriend, will you forget to forge and live your own life?

4. You are brown as in southasian? Also where do you live

5. bro you always make new accounts and post the same stuff over and over again….. people always try to help but you just ignore or deflect