How do you deal with guys who are mostly nice with girls only but often a douchebag with guys?

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1. Why would I “deal” with them? If they’re a douche with me Ill act accordingly but thats got nothing to do with how they are toward women

2. Not sure. I don’t have any douchebag friends or associate with them and I tend to keep it that way.

3. You don’t. Stop hanging around people that suck. It’s one thing to be casual and friendly in social/party settings but that’s all the energy I give to types of people i wouldn’t want to associate with

4. I don’t have time for chameleons.

5. I don’t have time for douchebags. I’ll just chill with the good ones.

6. I’m going to call their characters bluff, and probably welcome them to an exit.

7. So what is the guy doing that is douchebaggery?

8. I avoid them and the women who react positively to that kind of behavior as well.

9. I just take peace in the fact that no man will ever respect him & every woman will walk all over him

10. Discard them instantly from my life.

11. I don’t. The best thing about being a free individual is getting to choose who you want to interact with. Folks that can’t show basic respect for other humans, especially those that create a facade to manipulate others, have no place in my life.

12. If it’s not a work situation, make it clear to people you have in common with the douchebag in question that you don’t want him in your life. If that’s a problem with them, cut them off too and be well shot of them.

13. That’s his business, unless it’s affecting you personally.

14. Am I a girl or a guy

    If the former, nothing. If the latter, stop hanging out with them

15. Be smart and stop 🛑 dealing with them.

16. I deal with it by not having those kind of guys in my life.

17. Why would I deal with them?

    I wouldn’t be around them.

18. Leave them be.

19. By not being near them? No point in hanging out with someone who’s chasing poon so hard he’s become cold to his mates.

20. Put peanut butter on all his doorknobs.