Do you have to tense while building up/reaching ejaculation?

2 comments

1. Vagina owner here and yes. This is why it’s hard for me to cum during PIV sex.

2. I don’t have to do anything to ejaculate. For example, if I am getting a blow job, I can lay back and do nothing and the good feeling is going to make me ejaculate. I can try to avoid thinking about the pleasure I am receiving and it will delay my ejaculation a little bit, but I can’t stop it. The more I try to delay, the bigger the explosion.