Hi folks!
I am a 25 year old woman and I’ve never been in a long-term relationship. Convenient (and somewhat true) explanation would be never had the chance, never felt enough for someone, and social conditioning. Have been on a few dates but that never extended into something else.
Went on a date recently and got asked about the last relationship I was in. Feeling quite unsettled after that, like something is wrong with me. How do I unpack this? I know I want a LTR but feels like I have been left wayyy too behind now. Can somebody give a guide to navigate this, because it feels like I am not doing something right. Ugh..
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There’s nothing to worry about. It’s difficult to find the right person, but when you do It’s important to keep communicating about the important things in your life. Also, when something is bothering you talk about it. Be a best friend and a lover, so you won’t be afraid to talk about more sensitive topics when they happen. Fights are sometimes needed.
Just be honest. Be chill and nonchalant if people ask you. Trust me especially nowadays a lot more people than you think aren’t really dating that much even into their twenties. Like you said, you can just explain that you’ve had interests here and there but nothing serious in the long term. It’s not a problem for most guys unless you make it a problem, if anything there’s probably a good section of guys out there who prefer girls with no experience.